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Jamala

Jamala is from the Middle East. She came to the shelter with her two school-aged sons after her husband broke her arm. It was not the first incidence of abuse but it would be the one that made her leave for good. Among the issues confronting Jamala was the fact that both of her children treated her disrespectfully. In addition to individual counseling and attending the shelter's weekly support groups, Jamala needed help with parenting skills. She had been unable to deal with her son's verbal abuse. She explained they were parroting what they had heard from their father. The advocate believed that not only did Jamala need help, but her sons needed counseling as well. A child psychologist was brought in to work with the children.

In the meantime, Jamala was referred to community resources for financial assistance and emergency Medicaid. Within two months of arriving at the shelter, Jamala had found a job as a cashier in a local food market and began to save money to move out into her own apartment. At the end of four months, the shelter helped Jamala find an affordable apartment in the same school district as her sons were attending. The shelter paid for the first month's rent and utility hooks and helped furnished the apartment with small household appliances, linens, towels, and cleaning supplies. While the children still exhibited some hostilities towards their mother, they had improved significantly and were continuing therapy.

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